"I did it my way" -Frank Sinatra
I love that song. He did it his way. How empowering.
There really is only one way to live your life. YOUR WAY.
The reason for the stress and resistance you feel inside is because you are holding yourself back. You're living your life based on what other's want for you. Not what you want for yourself. You're compromising your happiness for the needs of others. It's not noble. It's not healthy.
Where do you fit in your life? When do you get some attention from YOU?
Taking care of yourself first is the most SEFLESS thing you can do. Life changes drastically when you put your needs first. When you feel complete, you can give more. When you are serving your purpose, others get inspired by you. When you're truly happy, everyone around you will be happy. It's contagious.
Here's something that may not sit well with some of you. Stop taking advice from people who have no experience with what you desire. This has been my karmic loop for a long time. I'd come up with a great idea. Something that made my heart sing. I can hear my soul whispering "YES. LET'S DO THAT". Like always, I'll ask the wrong person for advice. I'll hear things like "be careful", "Are you sure you want to do that?", "you shouldn't do that" . All they are doing is projecting their fears onto me.It's not advice. Because they are afraid to pursue their dreams, they believe that I should too.
Take advice from people who have knowledge of the topic. Real experience. Take advice that starts with " Have you tried this...", " Here's been my experience" Constructive advice will show you how to do something. Not why you shouldn't.
IF YOU WANT IT BAD ENOUGH, YOU'LL FIND A WAY. THERE'S ALWAYS A WAY.
You have but so much time to pursue your dreams. Don't waste it listening to people who want you to stay in the low energies with them. These are not bad people. They love you. I'm sure of it. So thank them for their concerns and move on.
Create a life that is perfect for you.
I LOVE YOU
PLEASE FORGIVE ME